since everyone reads my blog...haha, no just kidding...let's start over. since a two people read my blog, but also know people close to me, i'm keeping this vent short and sweet so i can't get it out and move on.
this is my wedding. i'm a nice person and considerate. i'm not thoughtless and shouldn't be treated like my choices are tragedies that are made to disappoint. when i tell you what we have decided, you don't have to say "ok, fine that's your choice". i'm doing things because i want them that way. i don't need people to tell me that they don't want to do it - just do it. do it for me and FI. when you volunteer to help, please do make me harrass you two weeks, then one month, then two months later to get it done. then don't volunteer! stop calling me a bridezilla. remember, this is a celebration of my and FI's marriage. please remember.
i don't feel much better because i know it's going to get worse in the next month. i just needed to put it in writing. maybe i'll remember this in a few years and laugh at how silly we all were.
this is my wedding. i'm a nice person and considerate. i'm not thoughtless and shouldn't be treated like my choices are tragedies that are made to disappoint. when i tell you what we have decided, you don't have to say "ok, fine that's your choice". i'm doing things because i want them that way. i don't need people to tell me that they don't want to do it - just do it. do it for me and FI. when you volunteer to help, please do make me harrass you two weeks, then one month, then two months later to get it done. then don't volunteer! stop calling me a bridezilla. remember, this is a celebration of my and FI's marriage. please remember.
i don't feel much better because i know it's going to get worse in the next month. i just needed to put it in writing. maybe i'll remember this in a few years and laugh at how silly we all were.
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